Natalie S. says that New Zealanders don’t follow any strict dating etiquette or rules while making the first move:
“It is unusual for a man to walk up to a woman in the street and ask for her number and ask to go on a date. The formalised dating ritual that seems to take place in American High school doesn’t really take place here, boys and girls don’t go out on ‘dates’ or pick them up at 5 and drop them home at 10 after saying hello to the father.
I find most relationships are borne out of friendship or (I hate to say it) drunken antics. In the first instance, the future couple is in the same friend group, or meets through mutual friends and continues to meet in a group context until plucking up the courage to make a move into something else.”
Thanks for sharing, this article gives such an interesting insight into the local culture in NZ and what to expect!
This is such an interesting article! I never knew anything about dating a Kiwi but now I am certainly intrigued haha