How to Date a Foreigner

Author name: Sylvia Halter

Sylvia is the author of How to Date a Foreigner. She travelled around the world for six years researching cultural differences in dating and relationships. Her first book is coming October 2023. Pre-order here!

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Step 5: First date ideas – pick based on their culture!

Now that you understand the basic cultural differences when it comes to international dating (including time oriented, people oriented and mixed time & people oriented dating cultures), let’s look at picking the perfect first date ideas. First date ideas for time oriented dating cultures People from time oriented cultures (American Dating Style) are often busy […]

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Step 4: Respect their culture’s need for personal space

If you got to this stage, you might feel like you know everything when it comes to international dating. However, the most important (that is the easiest to get wrong) comes now: respecting personal space.

We are doing a separate article on this as it is so easy to mess up.

What is personal space?

Personal space the amount of space and privacy you need from others to feel comfortable.

It is not just a space in physical sense (like when you are talking to someone and they are too close). It is also in the privacy sense that some people are not comfortable sharing certain information or don’t want to be asked certain information.

Luckily our need for personal space doesn’t change drastically if we go to a neighboring country.

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Respecting Personal Space

Step 3: Fall in love vs. get married – know their dating goal

Now that you are aware of the differences in dating cultures and clues to identify them, let’s look at the differences in the goals of dating: fall in love vs. get married. Across cultures, we have very different goals when it comes to dating. Some cultures date to fall in love others to get married.

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Fall in love vs get married

Step 2: Discover their dating culture and attachment styles (with clues)

Now that you understand the different dating cultures, let’s look at some clues to help us identify them. By the end, you should be able to easily know other peoples’ dating style. Knowing someone’s country of origin can often help us determine their dating style. However, especially in Europe where so many cultures (and dating

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Dating cultures and attachment styles

Step 1: Understand time vs. people oriented dating cultures

Discovering dating cultures begins with understanding peoples’ priorities (orientations). In this first step, you will learn about the time and people oriented cultures and the differences when it comes to their dating styles. By the end of this step, you should also be able to identify your own.  Our common dating habits help us navigate

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American Style Dating Culture

International Dating Glossary

International Dating Glossary In this International Dating Glossary, we include everything related to intercultural dating, cultural identity and international dating. Other glossaries, such as the interracial dating glossary and top trending terms, you can find on the main glossary page. ABC: American-born Chinese (ABC) is a term widely used to refer to natural born American citizens

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International Dating Glossary
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