PDA and Kissing Culture in Brazil
Brazilian dating culture means openness about feelings: public displays of affection are so natural and common that there is not even a special word or expression to describe it in Portugees. Couples usually are very passionate about showing their affection, so it’s common to see people kissing in public.
Ricardo C. compares Brazilians and Canadians:
“My wife is Canadian and I’m Brazilian. Her friends think it’s so cute that we always walk holding hands, but to me, that’s pretty much the only way couples walk around together. If a man and a woman walk just side by side in Brazil, they are probably just friends. I always take a long time to understand when couples in Canada are couples because they stay so far from each other.“
Bruna R. tells that people tend to have more physical closeness (just like in Spanish culture):
“Brazilians in general like to touch a lot, even in conversations with strangers we are used to putting a hand on the person’s shoulders. It’s not something strange in a culture, where people are uses to talking with hand gestures. And if they are dating, public displays of affection is totally fine, and to be honest who on earth doesn’t like a bit of cuddle to know that you’re important to someone?“
If you are used to official handshakes or strict head nods, then you might be surprised by people giving kisses (beijo) to each other on the streets, in cafes, in parks…everywhere! This is the usual way people greet each other, no matter whether they see you for the first time or you are good friends.
Caio B. explains that there are even regional differences in Brazilian kissing culture:
“In San Paulo or Minas Gerais, you kiss once. In Rio de Janeiro you kiss twice. In Rio Grande do Sul you kiss three times. If you’re unsure of how many kisses to give, it’s fine to default to just one.“
So, if you are in Brazil be ready to kiss your friends, friends of your friends or even relatives of your boyfriend/girlfriend.